Your life at 21 is a world away; your weekends weren’t occupied with weddings and you didn’t have to find ‘kid friendly’ locations to meet your friends at. But nowhere is the difference so noticeable as when you go travelling. Here are just some ways travelling in your thirties is different from in your twenties.
Travelling in your 20s vs travelling in your 30s
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You go for different amounts of time
Your first overseas adventure probably started with a one-way ticket and a hungover flight, and it probably ended in a similar way when your money or visa ran out. In your thirties you have a job, commitments, and a pretty serious commitment to Game of Thrones, so you always know when you’ll be returning.
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You visit different things
Travelling in your early twenties means finding the craziest club with the cheapest drinks and the hottest Irish guys (it’s the accent). The first time I went to France I didn’t even visit the Eiffel tower because I was too hungover. Fast forward ten years and you visit every gallery, museum, cathedral, and landmark you can fit around eating.
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You eat better
Travelling in your thirties means pretending to be Maeve O’Meara from Food Safari; the majority of your itinerary focusses on the culinary offerings. You might even take a cooking class, which is a world away from that time you ate a street kebab every meal for 2 weeks because it was cheaper than McDonalds.
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You stay at different places
In your thirties, an 18 bed dorm – no matter how cheap it is – has lost all of its charm. You’re happy to pay the extra money for Airbnb over couchsurfing to ensure you don’t get woken at 3am by a group of semi naked Israeli’s wearing road signs as hats. Words like ‘boutique hostel’ and ‘private balcony’ make your insides warm and gooey.
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You don’t get tinea
Probably because, this time, you didn’t lose your thongs on a beach in Thailand. And if you did get tinea, you’d know the right tinea treatment to sort it out.
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You pack better
You no longer suffer from over packing (or under packing) and you’ll tell anyone who will listen about your bag’s chest strap that really takes the weight off your hips, or how that microfibre towel was the best thing you ever bought, or that a merino cardigan is the perfect layering item.
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Your stuff is nicer
Not only do you pack better, but your stuff is nicer. You only took one pair of boots because they’ve got the perfect tread and water resistance, and you probably bought a new camera lens or iPad just for this trip.
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You don’t mind cliche
You don’t care if the gondolas in Venice are cliche, it’s a beautiful way to see the rustication on the facade of the buildings. Damn those Venetians knew what they were doing.
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Your luggage looks different
In your early twenties you would have used a plastic bag held together with a broken clothes peg if you had to, but now you get excited if your carry on matches your check in luggage. By the way, nice luggage tag.
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Hangovers are worse
The crippling hangovers you inherited in your thirties make that early morning hike you promised yourself you’d do nearly unbearable.
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You won’t feel obligated to read Shantaram
Even if it someone says it’s, like, oh my god, so life changing.
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You travel with different people
In your early twenties you were probably with your BFFs, and even if you’re still lucky enough to travel with friends there’s probably some partners or kids in the group now. You’re also Ok with travelling by yourself, because you never have to compromise on itineraries or feel guilty for wanting to spend 3 hours reading in a cafe.
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You don’t try to see everything
Every one has a to do list when they go travelling, but the more you travel the more you’ve learnt that you won’t do everything so you might as well prioritise, which is good because…
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You get tired quicker
Travelling is exhausting and it feels like you need a holiday after your holiday. Remember your early twenties when you’d do a walking tour and then a pub crawl? Who was that person? Where did they get their energy? Now you need a foot rub after the Louvre.