Hanging out with friends in far-flung places on the other side of the world sounds like a cool thing to do, but it can present problems, as well. Here’s the lowdown on the advantages and disadvantages of travelling with your bezzies.
The best and worst things about travelling with friends
Comfort zones
Let’s start by addressing the overall travel experience. One of the best things about travelling is exploring new cultures, meeting new people and making new friends. It depends on the type of person you– and also your travel partner – are naturally, but when you are travelling with friends, it is easy to stay in your own group and not talk with other travellers or locals.
Travelling also gives you the chance to do something new, learn more about yourself, and grow as an individual both in character and by discovering new interests. This is easy to do when you travel alone, but it’s not as simple if you have to consider what other people want to do. Therefore, choose your travel buddy carefully.
Peer pressure
The last hint brings us nicely on to peer pressure, and it is in this grey area that travel experiences can often go awry. You may feel compelled to do what your friend or friends are doing, even when you don’t want to. To avoid rocking the boat, you go along with a trip or an idea you are not comfortable with or enthusiastic about. This can cause friction, because hey—it’s your holiday, too!
Peer pressure can also have a knock on effect with your budget. If you spend money on something you didn’t really want to do early in your trip, you may miss out on something you find to do later. It’s a fine line, but to get the best from your travel experience, don’t feel pressured into doing something you don’t want to do. Your friends will not think any less of you for bailing out – and if they do, they’re not the sort of friend you’ll want to hit the road with in the future.
Communication is key
To avoid tension, communication is key. When you spend time in another person’s company 24/7, you really get to know them—and they will inevitably have habits that bother you.
Bad habits are particularly noticeable on the slow transit days when you are stressed, tired, and do not want to be hassled. Tensions can snap on the road, and if a small problem blows up into a huge argument, it can ruin your friendship and your trip.
Therefore, establish clear lines of communication and say in advance, “Look, if I do anything that bothers you, tell me and we can work it out!” Most friends will iron out niggly problems if they’re discussed up front.
The banter you can enjoy with friends also makes a travel experience all that much better. When you are on your own and things go wrong, you have to handle it yourself—but friends can support each other, and laugh their way through difficult moments.
Dining and drinking
The best thing about travelling with friends is all the amazing experiences you will share. Day trips are a given, but it is often the small things we take for granted, like meal times and nights out, that make you really glad your friends are there.
On the other hand, you could end up paying more when you go out with friends nonstop for a week or two, so you need to decide—again, in advance!—whether you’ll share bills, or each pay for what you have.
Travel is all about the experience and your friends can make or break that. Having your friends around for fun, support and banter has many benefits, but travelling solo also has benefits that are worth considering.